INFJ Problems – Masks

Hi. I'm an INFJ... and I'm a mistress of the masquerade. When Halloween comes around, I often feel the greatest costume for an INFJ is to go unmasked. Just for one night, to show the world who she really is. It will never happen of course. We rarely wander without our masks in place. But... Continue Reading →

INFJ Problems – Vulnerability 

Hi. I'm an INFJ... and I'm as vulnerable as a dune bug in a hurricane. Why are INFJs particularly vulnerable? It's because we're m&m's at heart; hard outer coating, and a soft gooey inside. And like m&m's, our outer coating doesn't take much to crack and reveal the soft vulnerable inside. We're vulnerable inside because... Continue Reading →

INFJ Problems – Observation

Hi. I'm an INFJ... and I don't miss a trick. INFJs are often thought of as being clairvoyant or psychic. We are often told we're intuitive and empathetic. All of this may be true to some degree, but one simple reason why we always seem to know what's going on is that we're observant. Keenly so.... Continue Reading →

Giggles and Chuckles

This one really appealed to my warped sense of humour! This one really spoke to me. Maybe because I've spent so much of the last few years learning Cowboy.... especially "Don't squat with your spurs on"... sounds like something Grace would say...

More INFJ and Inspiration Truths

While many INF*s and introverts are probably enjoying forced isolation and/or quarantine, I thought it timely to remind our extrovert friends (who are likely going mad from isolation), what it is that makes us tick...

Some INFJ Madness

Long time readers will know I'm a big fan of the Myers Briggs Types Indicators and that I myself am a rare, delicate little stinging-nettle, otherwise known as 'the INFJ'. I haven't shared any INFJ funnies in a while, but came across a few while browsing Pinterest that I thought were too good not to... Continue Reading →

INFJ Problems – Conflict

Hi. I'm an INFJ... and I will fight to get away from conflict. Contradiction? Yes? Well tough. That's what INFJ's are. A walking contradiction. Seriously though, there are fewer Myers Briggs Types that hate conflict as much as the INFJ. We love harmony and peace in all aspects of our lives, including within our own self... and therein... Continue Reading →

INFJ Problem – Perfectionism 

Hi. I'm an INFJ... and this is draft 473 of this post; the others were deleted because they weren't perfect.  So, who said my post wasn't perfect? Who was the dastardly editor who made me rewrite and rewrite until my fingers were bleeding? Why that was me of course! There will never be a harder... Continue Reading →

INFJ Problems – Complexity 

Hi. I'm an INFJ... and I'm complex.  A lot of folk can claim to be complex but if you meet someone with a fun personality and a sad soul in one package, chances are you're talking with an INFJ.  Our confused souls often leave us feeling at odds with our own complexity and until we... Continue Reading →

INFJ Problems – Addition

Hi, I'm an INFJ... and I suck at math. I'm not talking about complex math or even algebra, calculus or trigonometry. No, I mean simple addition. Let me give you an example... Demand + Supply + Return On Investment = one depleted and frustrated INFJ. I'll break this down. Demand   "Come out to this party/event/social... Continue Reading →

INFJ Problems – Verbal Communication

Hi. I'm an INFJ... and if I were to say that to you in person it would sound like this: "Hi. You know INFJs? That's Myers Briggs right. Personality testing. Psychology stuff. I did one recently. A test. Not a psychologist. I'm one. An INFJ. Not a psychologist. I'll just leave..." Basically, INFJs suck at... Continue Reading →

INFJ Problems – Sharing Feelings

Hi, I'm an INFJ... and I suck at sharing my feelings. Now, I've gone on and on in this series about how INFJs are fantastic at reading your feelings, and empathising with you until you practically vomit over the gooeyness of it all. That said, we sure do suck at letting people know about our feelings. As... Continue Reading →

INFJ Problems – INFJ Door Slam

Hi, I'm an INFJ, the warmest, most empathetic soul you'll ever meet... unless you hurt me. When INFJs are hurt, betrayed or wounded we usually forgive -  not forget - but forgive. Try it again and you may be forgiven again. But try it on a third time and you'll be on the end of... Continue Reading →

INFJ Problems – Rage

Hi, I'm and INFJ and you'll find it very hard to fight with me. I dislike conflict immensely and usually have ways of mitigating conflict that don't involve actual conflict. I talk, I soothe, I manipulate; anything to avoid a big nasty fight. That does not make me weak though. And it also does not... Continue Reading →

INFJ Problems – Misunderstood

Hi, I'm an INFJ - don't worry if you don't get me, you probably never will. We are the enigma wrapped up in a conundrum surrounded by a puzzle. We are the least understood of all the types* and half the time, we never even truly know ourselves. This is our own fault though, so... Continue Reading →

INFJ Problems – X-ray Vision

Hi, I'm an INFJ and don't lie to me. Why is that you ask? Why because INFJs have mastered X-ray vision. With an almost preternatural sense of intuition, coupled with super-strong empathic skills, INFJs only take a few seconds on first meeting someone to know who they are... really. We see behind the mask and... Continue Reading →

INFJ Problems – Over-giving

Hi, I'm an INFJ. When we first meet i'll assess you. I don't mean to, it's what I do. I will make a quick judgement about you (and usually it's on point). Then regardless whether you ask for it, if I see you need something, I will give it to you. I'm not talking about... Continue Reading →

INFJ problems – Intensity

Hi, I'm an INFJ. When I first meet you, I'll give you my smile. My big smile. The one that comes from my heart. Then, when you start sharing your deepest, intimate secrets with me, I'll give you my attention. All my attention. I may even brush your arm or squeeze your hand. It's what INFJs... Continue Reading →

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