Hi, I’m and INFJ and you’ll find it very hard to fight with me.
I dislike conflict immensely and usually have ways of mitigating conflict that don’t involve actual conflict. I talk, I soothe, I manipulate; anything to avoid a big nasty fight.
That does not make me weak though. And it also does not mean I won’t fight when stirred. In fact, the INFJ rage, when awoken, is the stuff of terrifying nightmares.
When I believe I am right or when my principles are challenged I will get ugly. I will use my empathic, intuitive knowledge of you to wound you where it really hurts… often irreparably.
I will speak first, without engaging my brain, and use the deep knowledge I have of you to cut deeply.
Therefore, I beg you, don’t ever tick off your INFJ to the point where they rage. If you do, you are likely to never repair the hurt that results and you may never recover from the wounds you receive.
*If you’d like to know more about INFJs or the Myers Briggs Personality Types follow this link.